Thursday, May 29, 2008

Lessons From the Dalai Lama

Instructions for Life from the Dalai Lama:

1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

3. Follow the three Rs: Respect for self, respect for others and responsibility for all your actions.

4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.

5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.

6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

8. Spend some time alone every day.

9. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.

10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.

12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.

13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.

14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.

15. Be gentle with the earth.

16. Once a year, go some place you've never been before.

17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.

18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.

5 comments:

briana dale said...

number 5 is golden. so's 15.

Anonymous said...

its been more than a week since you posted. get on it. also, are you gonna get some TOMS shoes? we're learning about foot disease in china. 190million peeps in china have hookworm. oh so sad. have your mom and dad buy you some tomsshoes.com type my name "Clark" into the promo code and get free shipping yay. should i go see that movie you're in yet??

B-Jacques. said...

I have been busy. You should see the edited movie I am in. Also went to the site and love it. I am going to by thousands of shoes so china won't have foot worm.

Anonymous said...

The man who really counts in the world is the doer, not the mere critic-the man who actually does the work, even if roughly and imperfectly, not the man who only talks or writes about how it ought to be done. t.r. aka Teddy ROOSevelt

B-Jacques. said...

your right. too bad the shoes cost more than my rent.